About FAPJAX
FAPJAX launched in the Spring of 2024 with a few main goals in mind- create a visually appealing and recognizable brand that bators can wear with pride, and to connect bators with one another.
FAPJAX is currently working on connecting with bator groups across the US to partner and promote meetups and grow attendance. We believe bating transcends just a physical act- it's about bonding, growth, shared experiences, and camaraderie.
While FAPJAX has no physical store, you are invited to shop online for all your proud bator gear. You'll also catch us at kink, fetish, and adult-oriented festivals and conventions as a marketplace vendor. We love to get out and meet our fellow bators!
Answers to frequently asked questions about bating and bators...
What is a bator?
One could say that a bator or "masturbator" is someone who unapologetically and unashamedly enjoys self-pleasure and understands not only the importance of self-pleasure and discovery, but is proud of their status as a masturbator.
Is masturbation healthy?
Of course! Yes, yes, a thousand times yes! Masturbation is considered healthy and a natural part of sexual expression. Masturbation does not cause any physical harm or injury to the body.
What is gooning?
This silly word refers to the act of letting go of all inhibitions and letting the sensations during self-pleasure take over and run things. You could say that gooning is a "level-up" from being a standard bator.
What is a solosexual?
Quite simply, a solosexual is defined as a person who prefers masturbation over other forms of sex. Solosexuals may identify as gay, straight, bi, or anywhere in between. Many bators identify as solosexuals due to their passion for masturbation.
Can you be a bator and enjoy intercourse as well?
Definitely! Many bators would agree that masturbating is their primary form or sexual activity and some may say
If you're a bator, you don't have to strictly be a bator- being a bator means you have a natural, passionate deep connection with yourself.
Where can I connect with other bators?
There are several websites online where you can connect with those with similar interests. Bateworld, Telegram Groups, and X/Twitter Groups. Don't forget that many cities have their own bator meetup groups which meet regularly so you can certainly meet others and share in the fun together!
How do I know if I'm a bator?
Do you like to play with yourself? Do you place importance on setting aside time for self-pleasure? Sounds like you might be on your way to being a bonified bator.
"As the host of the Atlanta Jacks and a proud bator myself, I've seen firsthand the camaraderie we can create in safe spaces for bators of all backgrounds through primitive sexual bonding, free of any shame or judgement placed on one's kinks or self expression through masturbation"
Chris G.- Atlanta Jacks Host